Doesnt matter if the preson is male or female...as long as we can pay the bills on time...have a conversatuion know and again and get along... just starting a new job which going to reqiries alot of time...like to be busy a have a couple of friends in town...do i make my bed evertday no... but showerr twice a day.... and take pride in the way a dress and loo....ready was hoping to find or make another friend....can never have to many. love the sun, beach,summer activities.. but fall is my best.